Sorority Paddle Tips and Tricks

One of my favorite parts about being in a sorority was making a receiving paddles.  For new
members, these small pieces of decorated wood can seem like daunting tasks.  When I first rushed, I even believed that little sisters were expected to cut and shape the paddle out of wood!  You can imagine how happy I was to find that they come pre-shaped. There are several options you can chose when decorating your paddle.  Some are colorful and sparkly, others are monochrome and chic.  No matter what you are planning to surprise your big sister with, I would like to share with you a few tips and tricks that I picked up on during my sorority days.



First, find out what your big wants.  This paddle will most likely hang on her wall for the next few years so make sure she likes it.  Be sure to find out her favorite colors, patterns, and interests.  If she loves running, think about including a photo of the two of you participating in a 5K or hitting the gym.  If you love watching Glee together, thing about including song lyrics or a quote from your favorite character.  The best thing about paddles is the ability to make them as unique as your big.  This paddle can be purchased from KraftsbyKristie on Etsy.




Second, use materials that will last.  For instance, Elmer's Glue will not hold as long as hot glue. Acrylic paint is my recommendation for both unfinished and finished wood.  The higher the quality of paint, the less coats you will need to apply.  Be sure to take your time when creating your paddle.  Start early and do not be afraid to try new things.  If you do not know how to apply glitter, throw a Paddle Making Party and invite your sisters.  Not only can you ask for their advice while you work, it is a great bonding experience.



Finally, do not forget about other important members of your family including
your grand-big, twin, or pledge mom.  Smaller paddles or plaques can be decorated to match your big's paddle or the recipient's personality, like this one found at TSM.  If your big is the only one who receives paddles at your chapter, think about starting a new tradition.  Running out of time or resources?  Picture frames, handmade gifts, or chocolates can be used to show your appreciation.

Do you have any pictures of paddles you have made?  Share them below!

Matching Outfits

Are you planning to have a photoshoot this holiday with your siblings or best friends?  Coordinating your outfits for pictures can be tricky.  So ideas that I have found to work include chosing two or three colors as the base for your attire.  Use accessories such as jewelry or shoes to show each individual's personality.  For inspiration, I have complied a set for you using a few of my favorite items.

Jaeger linen shirt, $125 / American Eagle Outfitters sweater / J Brand jeans / Seven jeans / Tory Burch flat shoes / Splendid flat shoes / J Crew j crew jewelry / Lilly Pulitzer scarf

Are you planning to do something fun this holiday with your sister or BFF?

Gifts for Little Sisters

This post is inspired by a lovey 8th grader who has made a permanent place for herself in my heart.  She loves color, flowers, and everything girly.  Some times it can be difficult to buy things for younger siblings, especially if you no longer live with them.  However, working along side middle school students every day has given me an insiders advantage that I would love to share with you.  So this Christmas, give your younger sister a gift she can enjoy all year long and let her know that you have no forgotten about her.  In addition to buying her presents, think about taking her to the movies or shopping at the mall.  This will give you an opportunity to reconnect and learn more about each other.

1.  Juicy Couture Perfume Set
2. Marc Jacobs Daisy Stud Earrings
3. Tyler Ramsey Classic TOMS
4. Victoria's Secret PINK Backpack

What is on your little sister's Christmas list?

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Gifts for Girlfriends

Girls are like magnets, we always find each other and we always stick together. This Christmas, thank your best friend by giving her what really matters, your gratitude.  I don't know what I would do without my best friend.  She held my hand during my darkest moments and celebrated with me on my best days.  She has always been there for me and I will always be there for her.  Gratitude can be expressed in a number of ways so be sure to carefully listen to your bestie's requests.  Here are a few preppy present ideas to get your creative juices flowing.

1. Vineyard Vines Flip Flops
2. Lilly Pulitzer Drink Coozie 
3. Kate Spade iPhone Case
4. Vineyard Vines Wallet
5. Lilly Pulitzer Bow Earrings
6. Kate Spade Rope Bracelet

What are you planning to get your BFFs?

Winter Trend: Colored Tights

Spice up your wardrobe this holiday season with one of my new favorite trends, colored tights!  Maybe it is because I was a ballerina.  Whatever the reason, colored tights are the perfect addition to your closet this summer, especially if you live in the north.



Jane Norman party dress / Opaque tight / Christian Louboutin black pumps / Charlotte Russe woven headband / MAC Cosmetics lips makeup

Dkny shirt / Hue blue opaque tight / River Island silver waist belt / Zip boots / Chan luu bracelet

Blue tunic / Merona sheer stocking / Witchery summer shorts / Cole Haan low-heel boots / ERICKSON BEAMON multi colored crystal necklace


Have any holiday plans this December?



2013 Christmas Wish List

Every little girl spends all year writing and re-writing her Christmas list and she never grows out of it.  Today, my Christmas list no longer includes American Girls dolls or glitter body spray.  I also know that it is not Santa who provides the piles of gifts under my tree, but the hard work and love of my parents, family, and friends.  This year I have learned a lot about who God created me to be, what love really means, and how hard it is to be a grown-up.  I have everything I could have ever asked for, nice clothes, a man who loves me, a solid roof over my head, a dependable car, and the support from loved ones.  What could I possibly want?  If I were to make a list, having my mom back would be numbers one through 543.  I know that God took her away for a reason that I will one day discover.  Until then, I am left to wonder and speculate.  So starting at wish number 544, here are a few of the things I would love to find under the tree this year.

1. Lilly Pulitzer Murfee Scarf in Lilly Loves Hope
2. Current Copy Harper's Bazaar
3. A Monogrammed May Designs Book
4. Lilly Pulitzer Tote Bag in Shorely Blue NYC Toile (Pictured as Chomp Chomp)
5. Willow Tree Remembrance Figurine
6. Gold Monogrammed Necklace
7. Essie Nail Polish
8. E.O.S. Lip Balm

Do not let my list fool you, this year I am not concerned about the amount of presents under my tree.  Instead, I would like to dedicate this holiday to the two most important men in my life...

What are you wishing for this year?